The boundaries of the feelings

            We can have a lot of feelings, that are really important in a relationship, because the way we act and the relationship itself depend on it. And of course, there is the right way to feel.

Jealousy  is a feeling that you have when the person you love is cheating on you, or you think so. If you really like someone, jealousy is something you can’t avoid. It’s normal to feel unhappy when you think you might have been betrayed. From our point of view, as long as it can be controlled not to cause you two pain, this feeling is necessary, because we show we care.

There’s a limit even for love. It can be neither too much, nor too little. Surely, love is one of the most important feelings in life. But it’s not because you love someone, you have to unconditionally like them. Everyone has mistakes and if you truly love them you are able to see it all: the good part and the part they should change.

Every kind of feeling has a limit we should never cross to have healthy relationships. If you love too little, it’s not enough. If you hate a lot, it’s too much. When you don’t exceed this limit, it’s not likely to anybody get hurt.